Russian women looking for men
Russian women – why are they looking for men from Western countries? Or are they?
Truth is that the vast majority of Russian women do not look specifically for foreign men. Most Russian women that you see on “Russian Bride” agency sites wound up there because they either responded to ads for work, contests and parties in the local media (newspapers, magazines, TV ads) or they were directly recruited by agency reps. Rarely you will find women on agency sites who put up their profile there because they are sincerally looking for a foreign man for marriage.
I deeply mistrust these agencies and the Russian women there especially if they are very young and very attractive. Just think about it. A very attractive, young Russian woman can have any guy she wants locally, in Russia or Ukraine. She can get an attractive, intelligent, financially secure local man. Why would she look for a foreigner??? If she marries a foreign man she will have to leave her family, friends, career, culture, her whole support system behind to move to a foreign land with a man she hardly knows after seeing him only for a couple of times.
Have you ever seen American or Canadian women listing themselves with agencies that will connect them with foreign men? Off course not! Why do you think that is? So IMO many of these women are on these agencies to make commissions $$$ from the money a man spends writing letters, web cam chatting, gifts, flowers, etc. Or in some cases they have an agenda or issues that prevent them from marrying a good local man. What could those issues be? How about women with bipolar disorder or BPD? It is estimated that about 20% of people in Russia and Ukraine have mental disorders. Russian men have a much better chance to recognise the symptoms, on the other hand most Western men dealing with the language and cultural barrier wouldn’t know if the women they meet are the equivalent of uneducated trailer trash, it is unreasonable to expect them to easily recognise dysfunctional Russian women and Russian women with serious mental disorders.
Now with the Russian women who are more average in their appearance and are not very attractive it is a different story. A number of them may run out of options and not wanting to settle for a drunk or a cheat locally some of them (but still a very small number relatively) may decide to seek out a marriage agency to look for a foreign man.
However, all this doesn’t mean that a man from a Western country can’t find a beautiful Russian woman for love and marriage. There are millions of single Russian women advertising for a mate on local Russian dating and social networking sites. They can be contacted directly, with no middleman involved. This is the most realistic and natural way of meeting them. Since the sites are in Russia and Russian women speak Russian language you might consider help from a reputable service provider who will help you create a profile on some of these local Russian dating sites, help with translations, cultural issues and educate you in regard to how to develop a relationship with a Russian woman and how to recognise Russian women with issues – the Russian women you definitely want to avoid!
realrussianmatch.com offers such a service and they come highly recommended with a very impressive rate of success helping Western men date and marry Russian women. It is run by a husband and wife team, located in Florida, USA.